Accepting our loved ones social behaviors ..!!
The title sounds different right? Easy to say but not to do .! Do you want an example of what I mean by accepting parents?
Here I quote a small one witnessed in the local bus.
A young girl around twenty, her mom and dad who were probably it their 45 to 50s got into the bus and as usual the bus was rush.The girl's dad some how managed to find himself a pole onto which he rested himself with a big black color bag in his hand. The girl was also standing firmly holding the belt hanging from the top of the bus. The girl's mom was trying to find out if there were any empty seats around her to get seated but unfortunately the driver put the breaks and it resulted the bus taking a sudden jerk. The girl's mommy could not hold on herself and she tumbled one or two steps away from where she was. In the fear that she might fall, though the bus was not stable, again tumbling two three steps ahead she reached her husband's hand. Her daughter saw her mom rolling uncontrollably in the bus and felt offended that her mother was not behaving properly in front of so many people in the bus.! Her face was filled with anger and fury. She gave a fierce look at her mom.!
As soon as the daughter's reaction her mom had a look of shame and fear!!
Seriously so inhumane..! We need to understand that our parents are far more innocent than us, far more insecure than us and they think that they should behave well when they are out with their children.! If I was in the place of that girl and my mom did what her mom did, I would have some how made my mom dad laugh at it or if I could not make them laugh, I would have at-least showed my sincere concern but would never be angry on her.!
May it be our parents, lovers, grand-parents,brothers or sisters. WE SHOULD ACCEPT OUR LOVED ONES. Most of us fail to do so.!! And accepting our parents/grand-parents is almost a big challenge for us. The generation gap, the thinking style and the perspectives everything differs. After knowing this and going few steps ahead to accept our parents will make a big difference. When we accept our loved ones as they are, it reduces the relationship gap between them and us and creates a beautiful personal life.
"I QUOTE : Finally it will never be between YOU and the strangers in-front of whom you feel insulted. Its between YOU and YOUR LOVED ONES"
Loads of love and respect to that person who taught me how to accept people. <3 you friend.
-Sindhu
Here I quote a small one witnessed in the local bus.
A young girl around twenty, her mom and dad who were probably it their 45 to 50s got into the bus and as usual the bus was rush.The girl's dad some how managed to find himself a pole onto which he rested himself with a big black color bag in his hand. The girl was also standing firmly holding the belt hanging from the top of the bus. The girl's mom was trying to find out if there were any empty seats around her to get seated but unfortunately the driver put the breaks and it resulted the bus taking a sudden jerk. The girl's mommy could not hold on herself and she tumbled one or two steps away from where she was. In the fear that she might fall, though the bus was not stable, again tumbling two three steps ahead she reached her husband's hand. Her daughter saw her mom rolling uncontrollably in the bus and felt offended that her mother was not behaving properly in front of so many people in the bus.! Her face was filled with anger and fury. She gave a fierce look at her mom.!
As soon as the daughter's reaction her mom had a look of shame and fear!!
Seriously so inhumane..! We need to understand that our parents are far more innocent than us, far more insecure than us and they think that they should behave well when they are out with their children.! If I was in the place of that girl and my mom did what her mom did, I would have some how made my mom dad laugh at it or if I could not make them laugh, I would have at-least showed my sincere concern but would never be angry on her.!
May it be our parents, lovers, grand-parents,brothers or sisters. WE SHOULD ACCEPT OUR LOVED ONES. Most of us fail to do so.!! And accepting our parents/grand-parents is almost a big challenge for us. The generation gap, the thinking style and the perspectives everything differs. After knowing this and going few steps ahead to accept our parents will make a big difference. When we accept our loved ones as they are, it reduces the relationship gap between them and us and creates a beautiful personal life.
"I QUOTE : Finally it will never be between YOU and the strangers in-front of whom you feel insulted. Its between YOU and YOUR LOVED ONES"
Loads of love and respect to that person who taught me how to accept people. <3 you friend.
-Sindhu
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