To detach those loved ones from us..

      Though I made a strong determination not to expect anything from her, still sometimes when I look into her eyes while she pass by, my peace is disturbed.Deep in her eyes I'm reminded of all those sweet memories we sieved together and the strong love and trust that she showed on me in those 6 months of her stay in my life. Yes one more breakup. But now I know, breakups are not just once or twice but they will be there through out the life. May it be a partner, best friend, just friend, colleague or even a stranger you met on the train. They are going to separate from us one day.


     In this Topsy turvy world, we come across thousands of people, few not being important even after spending considerable time with them and few giving sensational feelings in a very short time of their presence in our life.

     Interaction with the people around us and people in our mobile phones is an inevitable part of our lives. We are bound in this world with thousand of stings attached to all those people in our life.These strings might be the string of affection, love, sympathy, friendship,hatredness, jealousy, attraction, admiration, refreshment, happiness, sarcasm etc. Few strings are long and weak, few are long and strong, few stay for a very short duration and few seems immortal.

     Many such strings break abruptly without our permissions. And such breakups become painful if we had not made ourself believe that most  relationships eventually break down at some point or the other. Yes its true that everything in this world makes and breaks itself, and this cycle goes on. We come across lot of such people who make a remarkable impact on our lives, create an evergreen fresh memories in our life, give immense happiness to use just by their very presence.They might stay for a very less time or a very long time, when they leave we have to accept the fact that they have broken down their string with us and have moved out. Eventually things pass by and new things occupy their space. We need to grow up to recognise this. Growing up doesn't mean becoming serious or making others presence have less impaction on us. Growing up simply means that we should fill in life, enjoy the present, discover and believe the truth that nothing is going to stay with us forever.

     Many of our friends, colleagues, crushes/boyfriends/girlfriends/best friends/close friends just leave us with or without reasons or with reasons that seems to be silly to us. Trying to be calm at such times means accepting that change. When we are at our calm, we are ensuring that the things aren't getting worsened. It might also have happened in the past that we had left behind other people and moved on and they wined for us but we never realized it. Getting attached to the people around and sobbing after they are gone don't really get us anywhere.

     " When we say to ourselves that everything is going to change once, life becomes a little more easy. We have to enjoy the memories made by people present in our life now, not take it to heart when they leave, keep eyes and heart open to accept the new people flowing into our life and also believe they are not going to stay with us forever. "

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"Feel the beauty,love,attraction,happiness and awesomeness of life. It will not be the same tomorrow"


- Sindhu